Understanding Judgment is the only way to stop Judging , if person A says this glass is bad and person B says this glass is good ,that not gonna make the glass half good half bad the glass will always be just a glass .
Judgment it can only exist in peoples minds and the only real purpose of judgment is to force a opinion or force someone ideas in to others.
We learn to judge when our parents put their ideas in our minds instead of honoring the children point of view parents just tell kids this is like this because this is my experience and so on parents force their experiences into kids minds lowering kids self stem tremendously in a way forcing your experience in someone else is like emotionally killing them is like making them close their eyes and only see like you see.
And if you wanna go deeper Judgement cant exist without GOOD AND BAD concept and that concept is the view of a world were bad is something that doesn't have love and only good can have love or live , so is a view of a worlds were love can only be rewarded if you behave properly, we are teach that if we are GOOD we are going to be treat well and honor and is the only way our parents are gonna love us and if we are bad they are going to punish us and treat us like some monster that does not deserve love just by being but only when some conditions are accomplish when in reality we are naturally born with a ton of love in our hearts.
And this after childhood does not change we trade looking for the approval of our parent for the approval of a couple or the recognition of people .
there is a experiment that can help understand Judgment , you feel love you but all your attention in your feeling and ou focus in feeling as much love as possible then while you are feeling love think of a judgment and feel what happen to the love.
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Understanding Judgement and reclaiming your power
Understanding Judgment is the only way to stop Judging , if person A says this glass is bad and person B says this glass is good ,that not gonna make the glass half good half bad the glass will always be just a glass .
Judgment it can only exist in peoples minds and the only real purpose of judgment is to force a opinion or force someone ideas in to others.
We learn to judge when our parents put their ideas in our minds instead of honoring the children point of view parents just tell kids this is like this because this is my experience and so on parents force their experiences into kids minds lowering kids self stem tremendously in a way forcing your experience in someone else is like emotionally killing them is like making them close their eyes and only see like you see.
And if you wanna go deeper Judgement cant exist without GOOD AND BAD concept and that concept is the view of a world were bad is something that doesn't have love and only good can have love or live , so is a view of a worlds were love can only be rewarded if you behave properly, we are teach that if we are GOOD we are going to be treat well and honor and is the only way our parents are gonna love us and if we are bad they are going to punish us and treat us like some monster that does not deserve love just by being but only when some conditions are accomplish when in reality we are naturally born with a ton of love in our hearts.
And this after childhood does not change we trade looking for the approval of our parent for the approval of a couple or the recognition of people .
there is a experiment that can help understand Judgment , you feel love you but all your attention in your feeling and ou focus in feeling as much love as possible then while you are feeling love think of a judgment and feel what happen to the love.
Twin flames miss perception
Everyone is free and everyone has their own experience , so even if you find someone that has a spiritual connection with you that does not mean that you gonna like being in a relationship with that person .
relationships has nothing to do with spiritual or karmic connections , relationships are about liking someone preferences .
is easy to love someone you meet in a past life but that does not make it a great partner same with twinflame having a twin is in most cases not romantic at all .
you choose your partner and you face the consequences of that choice there is no perfect match make in heaven , everyone if free everyone change at any given time .
People use spirituality to feed insane expectations about relationships, relationships are not a happy ending they are what they are nothing more nothing less most of the time are just a transition between looking for external approval .
About Teachers and Learning
First of there is not student and teachers there is only point of views we just call teacher someone that share hes point of view or some information , doesn't matter how much experience someone has hes experience is always just a point of view and understanding that is real love not just saying pretty words about love because if you judge someone point of view as superior you stop loving your point of view , real learning is understanding things for yourself not just receiving others point of views .
if someone doesn't value hes own point of view then he cant really feel love , because hes not giving value to himself
is the same when parents teach they kids to fear or judge things , they are not understanding the worlds they are just getting fed of information that doesn't come from their point of view and they end up just adding more external point of views more judgments .
guiding and showing is more important than telling and demanding .
No such a thing as a Twin Flame
No such a thing as a twin flame or anything like that , there is people you have some connection with but that has nothing to do with relationships or it doesn't create a perfect relation like many dream.
this come from the idea that we are nothing, we are not enough , we are incomplete and the "solution" is another person that also feel like they are incomplete .
all this ideas come from the insane expectations romance have in our culture , relationships have a place but giving it spiritual meaning is just crazy , there is no perfect relationship and what ever you find someone you like , you are the only one that can determine if that person is the chosen one or the right one or what ever dont try fooling yourself with the idea that there is something outside of you that is going to make a relationship perfect and it will be much more easy because there is no way someone can fill the expectation that a perfect meant to be partner is gonna come .
Is just people having lack of confidence to make decisions and instead of making a responsible decision people make this ideas that something bigger than them is making the decision for them and everything will be perfect and flowers everywhere farting rainbows or there is a special connection that will make everything a happy ending.
just the idea that you need to find someone and you have to find them to be happy is detrimental ,
i mean thats not love thats just people seeking for fulfillment outside of them when the real problem the real cause of why are they looking for this perfect relationship is inside them not outside .
this come from the idea that we are nothing, we are not enough , we are incomplete and the "solution" is another person that also feel like they are incomplete .
all this ideas come from the insane expectations romance have in our culture , relationships have a place but giving it spiritual meaning is just crazy , there is no perfect relationship and what ever you find someone you like , you are the only one that can determine if that person is the chosen one or the right one or what ever dont try fooling yourself with the idea that there is something outside of you that is going to make a relationship perfect and it will be much more easy because there is no way someone can fill the expectation that a perfect meant to be partner is gonna come .
Is just people having lack of confidence to make decisions and instead of making a responsible decision people make this ideas that something bigger than them is making the decision for them and everything will be perfect and flowers everywhere farting rainbows or there is a special connection that will make everything a happy ending.
just the idea that you need to find someone and you have to find them to be happy is detrimental ,
i mean thats not love thats just people seeking for fulfillment outside of them when the real problem the real cause of why are they looking for this perfect relationship is inside them not outside .
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